Monday, June 13, 2005

Looking to be a cuckold again

I am back to being single. The relationship with my girlfriend has come to an end.

I have decided to search for another cuckold based relationship for the next couple of months. I found an interesting post via craigslist.org.

Here is the post and my "slightly editted" response. Unfortunately the ad had already expired.

Cuckold or Hotwife relationship? - w4m

Very attractive, strong, independant woman, looking to explore this aspect of her sexuality with a secure partner who will remain monogamous to her. If this sort of relationship would appeal to you, please email with your pic and any information you think I would be interested in, and I will reply in kind. I am interested in something long term, and not interested in finding any bulls/studs at this time. Married men please click your back button, I am not interested.


My response (including a vanilla photo of me):

Hello,

It is always interesting to see a personal posting on Craigslist that involves cuckolding.

My prior marriage was cuckold based. The last 7 years of my 9 years with my wife, she enjoyed herself with other men while I was monogamous to her. As my email address shows, I have been involved in the BDSM scene as well. All part of being kinky. :)

I have been debating in my mind since my marriage ended (about two years) on whether or not I wanted to pursue another cuckold based relationship. I had been most recently in a vanilla based relationship that I was hoping would allow me to explore that debate further. With the idea to slowly evolve the relationship towards being a cuckold again.

That sort of evolution is difficult I believe. I am relationship free once again and have decided to explore a relationship from the cuckold side again.

Being a cuckold is complex and at times difficult. It requires a level of trust and communication to be completely successful. I do know that complete success is an ideal, not a goal. That is true even for a vanilla relationship. All relationships will have its ups and downs. My goal is to have the ups greatly out weigh the downs. Something that requires active participant from both sides.

A little bit about me, I am 5'7", good shape, decent build. Have been working in the XXXXXXX industry for about 14 years. First and foremost for me is that my partner and I have common interests and desires beyond the sexual realm (though that is important as well).

I live in XXXXXX (XXXXX area), big fan of the NHL and the XXXXXX (though I didn't miss it as much as I thought I would last year). Really enjoy laughing, life experience has taught me that life is too short to not be happy. Can't say I am always happy, but I definitely try.

I would love to hear from you. Good luck in your search in either case.

Tim

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