Introduce Her To Your Kinky Side (article)

One of the biggest challenges in my mind is for a submissive male to inform his "vanilla" partner of the fact that he is a kinky submissive male.

Check out this article from AskMen.com that gives some suggestions: Introduce Her To Your Kinky Side

What do you think? Does the article make sense? Think the ideas would work?

Conversation my former Mistress had with a Bull

Unfortunately my servitude with her ended prior to me experiencing some of what she talked about. Mistress Kara and I do still chat. I am not sure if she and i would play again, but she is a wonderful amazing woman!!

here is an IM exchange from a bull that she sent me via e-mail.

Bull: Hi
Bull: my pleasure
Mistress Kara: you found my e-mail where?
Bull: FMSB
Mistress Kara: have you seen my sissy slaves website?
Bull: no, I haven't
Mistress Kara: http://slavetimmi.dns2go.com

Mistress Kara: He serves me
Mistress Kara: you can see one of the bulls we've had play
with us
Bull: where are they located on the site
Mistress Kara: under "other men" I think it is?
Bull: timmi isnt very well hung is he?
Mistress Kara: lol....no, but then....that is not his
purpose
Mistress Kara: bulls are for that purpose?
Mistress Kara: how well hung are you?
Bull: I have a few pics on my profile. I am 7+
inches and very very thick
Bull: big balls and large loads
Mistress Kara: Do you have pics of yourself?
Mistress Kara: or just your cock
Bull: they are of me on my profile
Bull: oh, I have a face g rated pic too
Bull: do you have any of you?
Mistress Kara: not at work
Mistress Kara: You can send me one if you like. But
sweetie, you are in Sac
Mistress Kara: that is not near here.
Bull: I travel all over Nor Cal and especially the
Bay Area on business
Bull: I am in the Bay area every week,
Mistress Kara: gotcha.
Mistress Kara: well, can't remember if it says I'm a BBW on
my profile, but you are okay with that?
Bull: can you tell me what you would like to
happen What excites you?
Bull: Yes, its not about the size for me but the
fun
Mistress Kara: have you played with other cuckold couples?
Bull: not that were advertised as cuckold, haha
but the first couple I was ever with I played with
them for over 2 yrs and shortly after we started
playing i found out he liked to lick her clean after.
He also loved knowing she was with me when he was out
of town on business
Mistress Kara: hold on...phone
Bull: k
Mistress Kara: back....
Mistress Kara: okay, yes...classic cuckold couple
Mistress Kara: we are a bit different since timmi actually
is my sub
Mistress Kara: submissive.
Mistress Kara: We do not live together
Mistress Kara: and play on average once a month
Mistress Kara: sometime twice
Mistress Kara: Personally I have a long term boyfriend, that
I love very much....and we have a don't ask don't tell
policy about playing with other people
Mistress Kara: timmi on the other hand, only serves me and
loves being a cuckold. I keep in chasitity most of
the time and currently has not been allowed to have an
orgasm in close to 68 days, to date.
Bull: How do you play with timmi when you are not
with another guy? What does he do to please you or you
to Dom him?
Bull: Does he enjoy licking cum from your body? Do
you allow him that?
Mistress Kara: Well, I haven't had him do that yet, only
because I don't want him ingesting the cum of someone
we don't neccessarily know is safe.
Mistress Kara: I would love to be there, but I don't fuck
without condoms and what I wouldn't allow in my body
goes for him too.
Mistress Kara: I can make him smear his face in it
Mistress Kara: And it is a great desire of mine to make him
eat another mans cum
Mistress Kara: it's just we need to find a safe way to do
it.
Bull: has he eaten you boyfriends?
Mistress Kara: no, my boyfriend does not play with us....
Bull: The first time Ken tasted mine I found out
by chance
Mistress Kara: by chance?
Bull: I went down the hall to shower after playing
and cumming inside Denise, and I realized that after I
came back from the shower I would have to walk back to
the room nude to get my clothes and get dressed. I
thought it might be a little awkward. I had already
started the water and was waiting for it to warm up,
Bull: so I went back into their bedroom and he was
lying on his back and she was squatting over him
Bull: They tried to explain that he wasnt bi etc.
Bull: I told them no problem and it looked sexy to
see it.
Bull: She loved the power she had to tease him and
make him clean her
Mistress Kara: it is very erotic
Mistress Kara: timmi likes to keep me warm and wet while I
take breaks with bulls
Bull: his favorite was to do 69 with her while I
fucked her from behind
Bull: what do you do while taking a break,
Bull: what is he doing?
Mistress Kara: got his head between my legs, keeping me warm
and wet
Mistress Kara: his only role is to watch and help us have
fun
Mistress Kara: he'll suck your cock if you will allow him
Mistress Kara: lick your balls
Mistress Kara: rub your feet
Mistress Kara: you are the "real" man in this
situation....he is only there is serve and please..
Bull: it doesnt bother me eitherway if he does or
doesn't its more if you want him to that excites me.
If it is something you want to see him or make him do
than its ok with me as long as its clean and safe
Mistress Kara: oh, I love to see him serve you.
Mistress Kara: and for you to laugh at him tiny cock...
Mistress Kara: remind him that what you do is how a "real"
man takes care of a woman.
Bull: its pretty tiny
Mistress Kara: yes it is
Bull: I have ahd a good laugh already
Mistress Kara: teasing him, talking to him as you fuck me...
Mistress Kara: make him hold up my legs
Mistress Kara: he would love all of that
Mistress Kara: make him wipe the sweat from your brow
Mistress Kara: and bring you a drink
Bull: could we make him do all that with a butt
plug in him?
Mistress Kara: I'll either order him, or you can if you feel
comfortable doing it.
Mistress Kara: oh yes....
Mistress Kara: I'd love you to just rub your hard dick along
his crack....scaring him....telling him this is how
his Mistress feels when you are doing the same to
me...
Bull: he could lick my balls?
Mistress Kara: when ever and however long you wanted....
Bull: rim me too?
Mistress Kara: oh yes...definately
Mistress Kara: would you enjoy that?
Bull: I had a g/f once that loved to do that but
it has been a real long tme for me
Mistress Kara: all while he was wearing a pink mesh gstring
and cami...then you can really laugh at him
Bull: I wouldlike to watch some xxx videos with
you after we have fucked and have him suck and lick my
balls very softly
Mistress Kara: that sounds lovely....
Mistress Kara: that will make me hella horny again too....
Mistress Kara: you could squirt on his face if ya wanted.
Bull: can i call you?
Mistress Kara: not now sweets, I'm at work
Bull: when can I call so we can meet?
Mistress Kara: well this week isn't going to work for me
Bull: ok
Mistress Kara: I''m going out of town
Mistress Kara: early for the holiday
Bull: well keep me in mind when you return
Mistress Kara: If you'd like to send me a pic that would be
great.
Mistress Kara: I can't until I get home from work
Mistress Kara: I'll contact you next week?
Bull: lets exchange when you get home from work
Mistress Kara: when will you be in town?
Mistress Kara: I won't send mine until I receive yours....
Bull: I will be in town Wednesday and Thursday
Mistress Kara: then maybe we should just meet up
Mistress Kara: one of those days
Bull: when you are at home and ready I will be
happy to send my g rate pic first
Bull: sounds great
Mistress Kara: okay....I'll talk to you later
Bull: I enjoyed it, I hope to hear from you so we
ccan meet this week,

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Creampie Bondage (story)

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Reader Thoughts on a Topic

My little blog seems to be picking up a readership. I might be too soon with this concept but lets see. The idea is to hear from you, the reader on a topic. It can be a quick comment, it can be a long comment, I just want to hear from you.

I will follow up with my thoughts and opinion on the topic in a week or so. So here goes:

What are your thoughts around a cuckold watching his wife get fucked vs staying at home and waiting? Do you have preference? Does one provided more satisfaction to the wife? To the cuckold? To the other man? I know many of you are thinking "it depends", if so, depends on what?

I have my two cents in mind and will start to write it up. Lets hear from the crowd!!

My Ad

The ad has been placed on craigslist.org, collarme.com, and alt.com.

Any feedback on it? Any thoughts on how to improve it? To improve my chances to be a cuckold again?

The only response that I have gotten so far has been by an automated sex spammer...

Here it is:

Looking to be a cuckold again

Late 30s male, fit, well built, intelligent, articulate, clean and safe seeks to serve a similiar female in a submissive, cuckold related type relationship.

Older female very welcome.

Essentially, I am offering all the normal duties of a cuckold husband, including assistance prior to, during and after her dating and whatever else she desires.

I am a service oriented submissive so am available for and offering certain types of cleaning, domestic service, house boy, personal assistant and similar duties, massage, your personal maintenance and so forth.

I would very much prefer an ongoing longer term arrangement and would be thrilled for marriage should I be so lucky to find the right lady.

I have been debating in my mind since my marriage ended (about three years) on whether or not I wanted to pursue another cuckold based relationship. I had been most recently in a vanilla based relationship that I was hoping would allow me to explore that debate further. With the idea to slowly evolve the relationship towards being a cuckold again.

That sort of evolution is difficult I believe. I am relationship free once again and have decided to explore a relationship from the cuckold side again.

Serious only please as this not something offered lightheartedly. I'm not looking for drama, one night stands and am very sincere and genuine.

Photos, additional information, bio etc available per your request.

Lack of Privacy

Very interesting posting on the wonderful blog, punishedcuckoldhusbands.blogspot.com, about the cuckold being very public about his position in life.

Here is the posting: Husband interrogation about cuckolding.

Many of my former wife's friends knew about my position in life. She even informed her sister and her mother as well. I don't believe they knew that i was a panty wearing, little penis cuckold, but they were aware that i "allowed" my wife to get fucked by other men.

The first time that I ever meet her sister and mother was the week immediately following a weekend where i saw my wife with another man for the very first time.

The weekend that i told another man (a real man) that my wife was his to do with as he pleases, while kneeling on his floor in only my panties and sissy feminine socks. The only clothing i was allowed to wear while inside his house.

The weekend that i slept on his couch, my little penis hard, my mind racing, as my wife was in his bedroom. The door being shut, my mind imagining what could and was going on. My wife sucking his cock, licking his balls, pleasuring him with her mouth. While i laid on his couch, under strict orders that i was not allowed to masturbate.

Seeing my wife get fucked for the very first time in front of me... to hear her moan in ways that i never heard before, to hear her orgasm while getting fucked. To see his balls quivers as he orgasmed inside of her.

Many individuals (mostly her female friends) that were in our circle of friends knew that i was cuckold. Knew that i wore panties and sissy feminine socks.

So i can understand and relate to the posting on PunishedCuckoldHusbands, the more individuals knew about my situation, the more it really drove home and reminded me in a consistent manner that i was sissy cuckold.

And like the paradox that a cuckold's life is, i found people knowing both humiliating/shameful as well as exciting..

One of my goals for my blog if i am fortunate to become a cuckold again, is to remove that sense of privacy both of person and thoughts like the posting says. To be as public with my position in life as my partner wants and allows me to.

I have placed an ad to be a cuck again

I placed a personal ad on craigslist today.

I got great feedback on my ad from Ms. MacComb from http://punishedcuckoldhusbands.blogspot.com/.

Thank you Ma'am!!

I will post the text of my ad within the week with any results. It would be amazing and exciting to even get a single response.

Wish me luck!!

Another Craigslist ad (and I got a response!!)

Here is the ad. I have exchanged emails with her. I shall see where and how it goes. I am always the eternal optimist. :)

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Are you a submissive single man living in the SOUTH BAY who would be interested in helping a confident sexy BBW discover and develop her dominate side. Already I am off to good start by being assertive,aggressive, and very controlling. I know what I like and know how to get it, but it is mostly vanilla and I want more. I would like to explore a D/s relationship, however I really love and enjoy men so I don’t know if I could become very sadistic. I want a slave to worship me for goddess I am, pleasure me orally, and do as instructed. I am very serious about this and not just experimenting or looking for role-playing.

Please reply with details about yourself(not one-liners} and how you will help me to become a Domme or Femdom. Your picture may get mine in return.

NO married, attached or otherwise “owned” men, as I deserve all your attention.

Thank you -- I am real you be too.

2 Subcribers via Bloglines

Yeah, I finally have another subscriber to my little bit of the Internet other than myself on Bloglines!!

Very cool, I hope everybody is finding my writing interesting and enjoyable.

Last Time I Was With My Wife

Below is a write up that I did years ago, describing the last time i ever got to fuck my wife.

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Yesterday was amazing. i had to go to work for a bit in the morning, wearing my panties and sissy feminine socks as usual.

i got home and disrobe except for my sissy socks upstairs. Spent some time lying on the bed, stroking my little cock, i have found myself becoming obsessive with masturbating.

Then the amazing and magical thing happened. My wife called me downstairs and told me i was going to get another chance to fuck her but that i had to fuck her while being on display via the webcam. She wanted to tease a few men online.

She proceeded to tell all the men that i was going to get to fuck her for the first time in over a year and they were going to get to watch. my little cock wasted no time in getting hard. my wife got on her hands and knees, the webcam was to the right of us on a chair, strategically placed so that everybody could see my little cock as it slide into her hot wet pussy.

God was it an amazing feeling to get to fuck my wife again. i was only able to stroke in and out of her pussy about 10 times before i felt myself getting ready to cum. i was not allowed to cum though so i had to stop. My wife just laughed and laughed. She even was thrusting back and forth against me. Making me stop her, since i was so close to orgasming.

i still don't know what it feels like to be in her pussy for a long period of time, sliding my cock in and out of her pussy over and over, feeling her pussy get hotter and wetter as she gets closer to cumming. Feeling her pussy spasm as she orgasms, squeezing my cock attempting to pull the cum out of me.

The man that fucked on Thursday got to feel that. The man with the 8 1/2" cock according to my wife also fucked her doggy style, but not for a few minutes or a few strokes... but for at least an hour and fucked my wife hard. Not barely moving like me, desperately trying not to cum but pistoning his real cock in and out of her pussy, his hands on her shoulders so that he could thrust even harder into her pussy. His cock being the perfect size and thickness, pressing up against her g-spot every time he pounded his cock into my wife's pussy.

i asked her if she had an orgasm while he was fucking. Her answer "Oh yeah, a few times".

i feel very fortunate and lucky that i was allowed to fuck my wife for as long as i did. The length was perfect for me, any longer and i would have cum anyways.

i will leave the real fucking of my wife for the real men.

Craigslist ad that I responded to

I found this ad via Craigslist and responded. It will be interesting to see if I get a response back. Wish me luck!!

Looking for a good Cuckold - 35

I want a man like anyone else, but he has to be more. I want to have my cake and eat it too. So I am looking for a man to cuckhold. 35 white, 36/28/36. you be below 40, and serious about this. Send me a pic and lets get to know each other

Ideal Penis Size

I never really knew that i had a small penis, until my former wife started to get fucked by other men. I rarely got to watch (only twice), but she did enjoy showing me pictures of the men, including their hard cocks.

I can clearly remember the night we were in the car, and I made the statement, "I know that i have a small penis". My wife's reply "Yep, you sure do". My former wife's rule was that all men that got to fuck had to have at least a 7" cock. Essentially the "A" cocks as shown in the bottom picture. She used to always laugh and say "if I wanted small, I would stay at home!"

As you can clearly see, my little penis is barely 4.5" in length and less than 1 3/4" in thickness (or about 5 1/2" circumference).

I used what I call the toilet roll test to determine my size.



Below is a chart that I found on a site called The Ideal Penis Size. My position on the chart has been marked in grey, it is a "E".

"E" for not satisfying = too small in length and girth, or too big in length and girth or any odd combination of small and big.

Swap Club (story)

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Sara's Sissy (story)

Fiction Submitted by: Anonymous

The day I met Sara I knew she was the girl I would marry but I didn't think it would end up like this?

The rest of the story can be found at:
http://www.tpe.com/~altarboy/nt020523.htm

Cuckolding and Female-Led Relationships

The Power of Cuckolding

Cuckolding has a close and powerful association with female-led relationships. Cuckolding is, after all, a wife's assertion of her sexual freedom with partners other than her husband. (I'm using "wife" and "husband" to include non-married couples in committed relationships.) Her husband is aware of her sexual adventures but remains faithful to her, placing him in a subordinate position.

Check out the rest of the article at Male Submissive's Perspective : Cuckolding and Female-Led Relationships

Prostate Milking

My former Mistress (Mistress Kara) kept me chaste for roughly 80 days. i was required to stroke my little penis hard every morning in the shower, thanking her. i was not allowed to stroke until orgasm though.

She attempted to prostate milk me about once a week. She was never completely successful. The concept and the idea is highly exciting to me.

Knowing that real men never had to experience such a thing. Knowing that they get to feel their cocks slide into a wet pussy. To feel themselves orgasm inside of a woman.

In my case, not even getting to feel myself orgasm into my own hand...

Check out Wife Worship: Prostate Milking, a good article on the topic of prostate milking that i recently found.

My presence on another blog

Wow!! i am famous! ;)

Check out http://wifeworship.blogspot.com/2005/06/chastity-devices.html
The picture of the pink CB-2000 is me. Pretty cool. When i first started to wear my CB-2000, i used to wear a hair scrunchie around my little penis with the device, since i hadn't completely trimmed down a piece of the device. i was still working on the fit.

Interesting Video

A cuckold's dream...

Welcome to my New Home

Unfortunately the machine that i was using to host http://slavetimmi.dns2go.com has died. Another machine has been order, so look for the entire site to be back up and running in a month or so.

In the mean time, get comfortable and relax, here in my new digs.

Here are a couple of places where you can read more about me if you desire:

360.yahoo.com profile
Former online Master's site (i am slave timmi on his site as well)
http://www.fmsb.org/pages/profile/view.asp?id=15
http://www.fmsb.org/pages/wimps/cuckoldhusband.asp?id=15

Ten More Times (story)

This story has always intrigued me. It is definitely in the category of "be careful what you wish for"...

It is from Altarboy's great site on chastity devices.

Ten More Times

Submitted by: Karen B

My husband had been nagging me for years about wanting to wear a chastity belt. I wasn't so sure about it. Being a rather 'vanilla' sort of girl, I thought it was weird that he would want to have his genitals locked up. Finally, we bought a CB-2000 and played chastity games for a while.

To my surprise I found that I liked it. My husband was much more attentive to me when he was locked, and I enjoyed the power it gave me. We pushed deeper into our role-playing, and I started to take more and more control of his erections.

I bought a stainless-steel tube, and made him get a piercing, which allowed me to lock the tube in place with a padlock, for which only I had the key. I started only to let him out when he was tied spread-eagled to the bedposts, or secured to a ring in the basement ceiling - locking him up again before releasing his bondage. I prolonged his periods of chastity, going up to seven months on one occasion.

It drove him crazy, and sometimes he begged me for release, but deep down, we both knew that he wanted me to take complete control of his sex life � forever. Finally, the day came for me to own him fully. I tied him to the bed, as usual, and removed his chastity tube. His penis, which had been cruelly confined for four weeks, stood to attention and ached for release.

"Do I own this penis ?" I asked him. "Of course you do, my darling." he replied. "So I completely control your erections and orgasms ?" I asked. "Forever." he replied.

"Very well," I said, "then I have decided that you will be allowed ten more orgasms in your life." "Ten ?" he exclaimed, "Only ten ?" "Yes," I said, "and I can tell you exactly when they will be." When he asked me how I could know that, I explained to him the programme of gradually increasing periods of chastity I had devised. I even showed him the little chart I had made:

Date today: 1 August 2003 Age today: 25 Period of Orgasm Date of Age at chastity number orgasm orgsam 1 day 1 2 August 2003 25 1 week 2 9 August 2003 25 2 weeks 3 23 August 2003 25 1 month 4 22 September 2003 25 3 months 5 22 December 2003 26 6 months 6 21 June 2004 26 1 year 7 21 June 2005 27 5 years 8 21 June 2010 32 10 years 9 20 June 2020 42 20 years 10 20 June 2040 62

"Look on the bright side, my darling," I said, "you get four orgasms this month, starting right now. But on the other hand, your tenth and last will be in 2040, assuming you can still manage it by then."