Date Ideas - Introducing the Hot Wife

I will have to try the erotic photographer idea with my wife.

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Date Ideas - Introducing the Hot Wife

We posted, some time back, some ideas on how a man can encourage his Significant Other to explore the hotwife fantasy. Here are some 'date' ideas that one could use. Of course, these could easily be 'flipped'. But, we tend to get this question more from men than women so excuse the gender bias

Have you ever played with a camera? A game of 'erotic photographer' or 'Playboy Playmate' might be fun. Some women aren't confident about their appearance and don't want you taking photographs of them. Some really get into it. Buy her some sexy lingerie and plan a photography session. Consistently encourage her about how beautiful she looks. At some point, when you sense she is really into it, you could simply make the comment: "What we need is someone here to take some photos of us." From there, the possibilities are endless in adding a "third" to your ensuing love-making session that is sure to follow.

One thing to explore the hotwife fantasy - that couples can do in the beginning - is to find a man, or men, you can trust to flirt with her. Trusting the man, simply means that you are sure that he is going to work with you towards your goals within your limits. The man you choose should realize there are no guarantees for anything. Many men would simply like to flirt with a married woman, just to see what happens... especially if he knows the husband is okay with it. Rather than going to Craigslist, with all the cheap, flakey thrill-seekers, go to an adult personals website likeAdultfriendfinder. Sign up for a short term, premium membership. This will allow you to look at the full profiles, photos and 'testimonials'. Look for someone with experience and feedback from other real couples, look for a well written profile that expresses respect, and definitely look for someone that she might find attractive!

Another thing men can do - although it is questionable among some that share the hotwife fantasy - is for the husband to have a man flirt with his wife prior to her knowledge of setting up a meeting (but preferably after you've expressed your desires to see her with another). This is sometimes done to help see how she would react or to help boost her confidence (perhaps, she is a more 'reserved' woman or expresses concern over your reaction). The ultimate goal of hotwife sharing is to open up a good communication between the husband and wife. Just be careful how far you take this, unless she is aware and definitely pick someone trustworthy that understands this is simply a flirtatious meeting and will go NO further.

Another idea, that we explored a few years ago, was to go to a hip dance club. Since there always seems to be an abundant supply of single men, encourage her to take a 'hot lap'. Tell her to 'pick out' the most attractive guy she finds at the bar. Dance with your MILF and look for the guy in question. Perhaps you could encourage her to take another lap and flirt with her (a drink or two might help her courage). This is a fun way to quietly and discreetly 'play' with the idea. After you go home, you can place the 'secret stud' into your love making session. Perhaps it would turn her on to think of what he might do to her. Of course, it's just the two of you....and this safe (and sensual) environment, might encourage her to open her thoughts a bit more!

Those are just a few of the ideas we've presented in the past. Look through our blog postings and you'll see a number of scenarios we've shared and fantasized on that might help you with your hot wife date!