Watch or Wait

Roughly a week ago I posed a question to the readers of this blog. Here is my thoughts and opinions on the topic. My thoughts are cuckold based, I would love to hear from the woman's and other man's perspective.

Here is the topic:

What are your thoughts around a cuckold watching his wife get fucked vs staying at home and waiting? Do you have preference? Does one provided more satisfaction to the wife? To the cuckold? To the other man? I know many of you are thinking "it depends", if so, depends on what?

I believe watch vs wait question is best answered with a mixture of both.

Being a cuckold is all about the paradox, the sexual desire to be with the woman in your life and the denial of such activities. Helping to prepare her to meet another man and knowing that he will be undressing her. Wanting to be the one that brings her to sexual heaven and knowing that you don't have the ability.

The same applies to watching or waiting at home.

Watching is simply amazing and intense. Seeing her in pleasure, watching her body, seeing her in ways I have never been able to provide to her.

Waiting allows my imagination, my mind to race. Realizing as I am cleaning, doing the wash, or simply sitting on the couch... the woman in my life is feeling a man's cock slide into her, watching each others face as that union takes place.

My former experience with the cuckold lifestyle, consisted of me waiting at home almost exclusively. Ideally I would have liked to watch more, but that just wasn't to be with her.

One of my fondess memories is being in bed in nothing but panties and sissy feminine socks. Hearing my wife come into the house. Feel her body next to mine as she slid into bed. Her hand fondling my little penis as she told me about her night. My entire body on fire, my mind racing hearing the story from her, her hand rubbing on me. My body wanting to orgasm, trying hard not to beg... My wife expertly managing me, bring me to the edge, but not over.

And with the end of the story, a kiss on the lips, removal of her hand and to sleep she goes. Leaving me and my little penis hard and frustrated (with a big smile on face).

That sort of experience would not have possible if I watched every time. The mixture of watching vs waiting caused me to constantly think about it, to constantly hope that this encounter I might be allowed to watch. To not be in control, to be a active passive observer. It truly caused my sexual focus to be on her and not me. As I believe it should be.

I would love feedback both on my thoughts as well as writing style that anybody might have. One of the goals for me with the blog is to be able to articulate my thoughts better as well as to try to be clear with my thoughts in my own head. Any and all feedback will be appreciated.